In reading the Bo Peep thread last night some of the things rang true to me. It talked about Going Dark being a kind of "you kicked me in the nuts" reaction to things and I'm going to show you". That's exactly how I felt yesterday and then I thought of the acting "as if" and I came up with an idea. What if I acted as if I didn't know that OM was here visiting? What if I became the OM and texted my W like he does when I'm with her? It might give him a taste of his own medicine.
So I texted W and apologized for being out of sorts at lunch (blamed it on being tired from all the services) and hoped that she had a nice Easter. Heard back from her right away and she said that she had been concerned. Texted her back that I had worked on taxes all day and that I was trying to come up with ideas for my BD since she asked me to lunch that day. Asked her if she had any ideas. Maybe I'll be able to get her away from him for a little longer on my BD. I know this may sound childish and selfish but it helped my mood. Didn't hear anything back on the second text. Oh well.
Me48 WAW46 M24 yrs S24 D21 D19 EA disc 6/09 2nd EA Fall 09 I move out 11/12/09 W and I switch 1/14/10 D Filed 3/17/10 W moves in with OM 6/8/10 D Final 6/21/10