Well, I would play it out in your mind a few times just so your prepared and calm and cool. I would not show any emotion are discuss your state. Just keep it friendly and short...life is good, no worries. Make her wonder. Be mysterious. Your're on your way to a party or something fun and out of character. No details.

Hope this helps!

Formerly SGfan
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