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Steady is so absolutely correct. we all know that's something that's easier said than done, but necessary.

You have some closure for now, but like Steady said you can't guess about the future. All you can do is move forward and fix you. The future will take care of itself one way or the other.

I'm in the same boat as you know, and I know i can't control anyone or anything except for me. What comes from that is anyones guess. I promise you that life will go on, and it will be as bright a future as you want it to be.

If someday your H decides he screwed up, then he'll come back. Just don't sit around idly while that happens. Keep moving forward for yourself, and figure out what you want. When it's all said and done, it may not even be him.

I have confidence that one way or the other we'll both come out just fine when this is over for us. It doesn't mean it won't have it's moments as steady can attest to.

You can always bring him by the Pax terminal on Friday and I'll say hello to him for you......lol.

Hang in there, you have people pulling for you.