me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
that's great mind! keep moving in on his space!! and where are those pics.
and lol on VB22
and I couldn't imagine my s11 being s13 and driving a waverunner. woah, that is scary!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
BBJ - R was a brave man entering your house at 1am! LMAO
Pearl - YOU WIN!!! DINGDING! House Boy is it!!! HB22 lives!
These boys are starting to make me crazy. I'm sure this never happens to anyone else, but do your boys ever go through a phase of fighing non-stop? OMG! I keep telling them to knock it off, or I'm going to thump them (LOL! Threatened w/it their entire lives, but finally asks... yesterday... "Mom, what happens when you're thumped, anyways?") This week is Spring Break. It's bound to get worse! Oy!
So, I had H take them to dinner last night - it's a guys night, right? I was so excited for some peace and quiet! So, how did I spend my peace and quiet? CLEANING CARPETS!! Ha! They look fab, though, and I'm sure I burned some calories.
When they got home, H and I watched some tv together in the pub. Only one "boy" interruption. It was nice...
Today, starts chaos. Day ONE - Outdoor soccer season. S13 plays out of town tonight (and at the same fields an hour and a half away), and the rest of the season at the same facility during the week... S10 has training on every night S13 has games. H travels all week, during the week. How am I supposed to handle this? I've hired D18, and posse, to handle S10 on those nights. He'll probably learn a lot this season!
S10's games are on weekends, and they both have at least four tournaments, mostly out of town, but some where they both play.
Oh, and did I mention, S13 runs track for school? He just ran a 5:35 1600 in his first meet. I told him... 5:35! That's my walking part of my run! And, you've already covered a mile of the 5k in that time! LoL
So, someone wish me luck. Here we go again!
(PS - I LOVE sports, so, the chaos is exhausting, but I wouldn't miss a game unless I was on my deathbed! And, who would coach them from the OTHER side of the field? LOL)
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Right on Hot Sports Momma! Good deal on the H front. Have you looked into the "investigating" any further? I know you can't go the cell phone route but what about a PI?
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
Sandycay - I'm working a new angle... w/the PI as a back-up. Hopefully, I have some luck!
UPDATE - This is not a red flag..., and all is FINE..., but my H was just standing over my desk using the snarky tone while asking about some mail we got. I looked at him odd, and in my mind I'm thinking, "What is it about you I still like?" He asks why I'm looking at him odd. I just told him... "Re-evaluating some options. Do you have anything else you need?"
MEN CAN BE SUCK DICKS!
PS - I make no apologies for calling him a dick, thanks.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
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