Well it all went pretty poorly. I stated my boundary. W denied, denied, denied. She then brought up recorder and I used Puppy's line. I stated the outcome if A didn't end. I was a little emotional but kept my voice in check and no tears. W stormed upstairs and locked herself in her room.
Who shows up to my house 10 minutes later - ILs with BIL.
I apologized to them for having to come out. W starts ranting about all the threats I made like 'sleeping in my own bed' and 'separating finances' as if those are threats.
FIL then asks about recorder. I stated the same thing to him. He just started yelling so I went upstairs.
W comes up and says 'I'm going to stay with my parents and take d'. I said you can do what you want but I don't recommend getting D in the middle. Then she says well MIL is staying. I say okay. FIL says something mean on the way out and I replied 'I hope you'll consider supporting our M'
W came to my room "I was just about to ask us to work on R until I found that recorder"
All in all a rough night. I'm off to work. More later.
M 40 W 39 D 4 M 5 years Bomb dropped 08/09 In house separation