Affair at the end game

[Awoken]

(I just posted this in my thread in newcomers)
I went ahead and called her; confronted her. I just couldn't wait it out. I found more information confirming that her recent trip to colorado to visit her "aunt" was actually to a ski resort, paid for by the other man.

I asked first if she time to talk; she said she did and moved to a private room.

I asked if she had spoken with her lawyer, and what the status of the their response to our offer was. W said she met with her lawyer on Wednesday, and doesn't know what their response is??!?!

I told her that I had decided that I could no longer share the house with her while she was having sex with other men.

She wanted to know "where is all this coming from". I didn't want to give away my sources, or when I discovered it. I told her that I couldn't continue with the charade anymore and that her actions had been transparent and that I knew more than she imagined. She pressed me for more. I very slowly gave out more details of what I knew. I revealed that I knew his name. She tried to say they were just friends, and I told her that I wouldn't be lied to anymore.

She sounded stunned that I knew so much. She revealed more, assuming I already knew. OM is in the middle of a divorce himself(imagine that). I looked up the divorce filing and got his wife's name. I haven't decided weather I should contact her or not. W said that OM's wife knows her. It seemed odd that she would mention this, and I'm guessing she is hoping I won't contact the OM's wife.

I got her to agree to call her lawyer in the morning and get the ball rolling. If I'm lucky, I can get her to move out with a week or two of her return to town. Even with this, I still feel devastated.