BD, your WAH is full of surprises. The D papers a few weeks ago, and now an easter card to you from the baby? Woah. It's too strange to respond to. In fact, it requires no action on your part at all, if you ask me. In my opinion, don't buy into it, whatever it is. Don't try to 2nd guess his motivations. You'll go nuts. He is displaying very erratic behaviour, and I think you gotta ignore it. Deal with what you can "agree" on, ignore the rest. This card is hard to "agree" with, if you see what I mean.
Q - did your H displayed signs of depression in the lead-up to the bomb?
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369