So, just keep doing what you are doing as far as getting your house and life back on track. Hopefully she will want to join in but if you dont want that then I guess you end it. From the way you write I think you still love her though.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final