No,Dan has ZERO idea about R, except for knowing he is the other speech coach so I spend time with him for work, travel together, etc. He doesn't know that we went on a date or that he came over the other night. Not like that is something you casually slide into a conversation!
Again, I am not out chasing Dan down. I really don't contact him much. I did send him a "Happy Easter" text at 10 this morning after church, but that was it. Only once he texted tonight to see where I was did I think of him again!! Then I felt kinda bad I didn't have the kids call him. I know his mom and dad went to his sister's house 90 minutes from here for the day. I doubt he went so he prob spent the day on his own which would be weird for a holiday. Granted who knows he could have spent the day with the old ow? Not my concern...
So long story short, yeah he is contacting me fairly often. My counselor predicts that the more I pull away the more he will contact. I try not to worry about it!
Thanks for the feedback re. R though. I am a little confused too. I am not deeply invested so if it turns out to be nothing then so be it....however it is a little odd to me given he was heavy duty flirting then showed up at my house at 12:45 a.m., then nothing.
