oh wow, yep, "as if on cue". As I was about to post how much I, too, have hope for your sitch, she pulls a stupid stunt like that facebook thing AND tells you she knows it bothers you... BUT... She wanted to "share the whole event" WTH? ..with whom? Why? Etc...a very silly thing to say. Perhaps It was her way of compensating him b/c she ignored him in public I FEAR...(I could be wrong.) Still, in all, I'd say "well done, pigskin, well done." And the pastor is right, evil is still around trying to break up the peace, and if she chooses that, well....c'est la vie. At some point very soon I pray and hope she wonders what the hell it ALL means OR if it simply means more of the same.
We all knew that absent an overt obvious and sudden miracle, we'd have to hope she'd wake up to the truth, in a more realistic time frame, incrementally. I'm still rooting for that. But I also can see why you might want to shake her and scream "WAKE UP AND SMELL THE TEMPTATION & SEE IT FOR WHAT IT IS!!"...
You'll never ever regret handling yourself with so much dignity, I am sure of that. Keep it up, and prepare to start enforcing boundaries in a few weeks or whenver you feel you can handle it. B/C that will be the test for both of you as far as how long you can remain in this limbo stage. Her event today needs to mean change, or it means nothing good....
Take care and we're all sending out positives your way, j-
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