In my case, W only tells me if I ask so I've tried to stop asking. The girls let things slip once in a while. I still don't think, in my case, there's an OM.
I'm trying not to focus on that and rather focus on getting my spending under control (GALing can run up bills), getting myself a good deal financially and then finding someone to share the kid-less nights with.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6