I'm a little surprised that R didn't try to push the boundaries a little... but on the other hand, being at your house at two in the morning might have been enough boundary pushing for one night! Perhaps he is being a little careful with his heart, as well. HE might have thought that after such a good evening (ok morning!), trying to push might leave things on a negative note, and that would have been sad.
Dang Jeff!!! You're too darned smart! I agree with Jeff BBJ, he's being very slow and wants to be a gentleman too. Being alone with you in your home at that hour was enough boundary pushing for one night.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Sheesh! That was almost like... a booty call! LoL W/out the booty! Is that a LOL or a CRY!?
WTG on finding a gentleman. Just don't let him stay that way for TOO long! I read my thread!
Yeah, I tried to go delete that...was using poor judgement due to the late hour! But hey a girl has to do what a girl has to do...
Yeah I was a little worried he would perceive it as said Booty Call, since it was 12:30 and all, but I am NOT a booty call girl. Sassy? Yes, but also classy...
However I would not have been opposed to a little kissing...I truly believe if a guy is a bad kisser it is a total deal breaker. Whoever winds up with me must be willing to be kissed on a daily basis.
He stacks up pretty well in the other areas of my list...
Yesterday he was re-plumbing his shower (handy man/dirty jeans and work boots? CHECK)
Today he is sorting cattle and has mentioned how he likes to be on the tractor in the summer on his uncle's farm. (cowboy? CHECK--small point deduction for not wearing a hat nor listening to country music though!)
He wants to take me to a piano bar, to an Omaha area theatre playing only independent/classic movies, and he can quote anything from Shakespeare to Catch 22 to David Sedaris (smart guy? CHECK Communications/lit major)
He thinks I am beautiful even in jeans and ponytail, sends me flirty text messages, but doesn't push me for the hanky panky (Gentleman without being boring--CHECK)
So it's a pretty good list for now even if we wind up being good friends/co-speech coaches...
OK back to work. Gotta pack our bag to go to my sister's house.
Ok at my sister's drinking Bailey's and watching a movie...
Did anybody else bawl watching the Sex and the City movie??? I had never seen it before...
I cannot believe he left her standing there on her wedding day. I am trying to figure out how they are going to make him abandoning her like that into a happy ending...
But all ends up ok. I cry at New Year's scene but that is what friends are for. Sounds like we both had interesting Friday's.
kat
Yeah I started crying when I saw Miranda alone on NY Eve and then they showed her husband and son sleeping together in the same position...so like Dan and Nathan...
I don't know what happened to R. If I scared him off/turned him off or what! Friday night in texting it was so cute, he called me beautiful and I said, "Thanks, nice to be thought of as something other than an old mom lady" and he replied:
"OML? I have a different acronym in mind for you"...
Then he came over for an hour, and I haven't heard from him since. He was texting me a dozen times a day (back and forth) and now, nada for 2 days. Weird...
Packing up to leave my sister's this afternoon. Gotta get on the road and get the kids home. Trying to find the line of leaving early enough that if they sleep on the way home they still sleep tonight. Need to leave NOW or wait until 8 when they can stay asleep, but think I will leave now...
Happy Easter everyone! Beautiful church service this morning...
My guess is that he is giving you space to have a family holiday. Patience!
Just so you know, K isn't the only one who hates that word! Patience...grr
All that talk on Mindfulls thread about drive has me revving my engines! Then Kat has to go telling me she had a makeout session. I promise, that is all I really want right now! Just some nice kisses...
Well Jeff I don't know if that is the case or not...Friday night (well 2:15 Saturday morning) I sent a short "thanks for coming in, had fun" text, and he didn't reply. I didn't care cause it didn't require a reply. But then this a.m. I sent a short, "Happy Easter" message and again no reply. So I guess I won't contact him again and let him reach out if he wants to.
Just got home. We stopped at my mom and dad's on the way home from Des Moines. They didn't come to my sister's bc mom's family had a potluck today and she wanted to be there to see her brother John who is dying from cancer. So Nathan talked mom into letting them spend the night. I am supposed to be doing those taxes I still haven't done, since we are supposed to mail them tomorrow
Oh and that Lance Armstrong knows nothing about cycling...not compared to Dan...
Thursday a.m.--Pissy Dan, mad I sent a 'nasty gram' overnight (just asking about insurance) lashes out at me because he is out of money, then cries bc his house is not a home for his kids??
Friday--Crabby Dan, wanting me to help him make Nathan a super athlete
Saturday--Happy Dan, bringing me coffee in the morning, hanging out for 2 hours, playing with the kids outside, talking to me, etc.
Sunday--He texted me three times already tonight. Wanting to know when I would be home and if the kids were off school tomorrrow.
I replied that I was on my way home and kids were at my mom's but would be home all day tomorrow if he wanted to see them (he leaves Tues. for 4 days in Canada).
He replies back "OK I will see them tomorrow then--Thanks!!!"
Then he texts: Can I call and tell them goodnight? Missing them much.
I read my thread!
But hey a girl has to do what a girl has to do...
