Offering her suggestions as to why she divorced me and changed her name was a mistake on my part. I recognize this now.
The last time I spoke to her I refered to her as "Mrs. XXXXX" i.e. her new married name (Last Hustband's name). This was about a month ago. This week I talked to her again and she mentioned to me that she did not want to be refered to by that name but to simply call her by her fist name.
Hmmmmm...
Odd that she wanted to ditch my family name for his yet she got her feelings hurt when I called her that.
Now mind you that I was not being petty (OK I was) but I wanted to guage her reaction to this out of curiousity. I didnt do this in a rude way. I can see now that you are probably spot on. It was an emotional reaction from her.
But honestly, I am starting to get to the point where I really dont care if she changes her name to bozo the clown. I wish her the best in life.
Sadly, some of the things she has done has hurt her more than me and her emotions will get the better of her sometimes. I hate to see this because she has always been a kinder and better person than me.
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me
