How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

Just spoke with my friend, he said according to OM my wife has backed off...my friend has confirmed that OM did switch his days so he and my W are not as often.

My friend tells me that the female co-worker my W talks to who cheats on her husband told my friend the following

Female "how is the situation going?"

Friend "I don't know I don't talk to anyone about it anymore because his W thinks I go back and tell him"

Female " yeah she said that, she can't talk to OM cause your watching. You know I thought she was like me... Married to a cop who beats her and treats her terrible but I am beginning to realize she is not telling the truth about things...I believe you more than I do her at this poibt"

As for today my W went to work then went to the hospital where I unexpected made an appearance with some flowers. We left together, get homee then W sleeps the whol day and then I left for work...