yes, the hang ups are a 180 - I started doing them in recent weeks - but I must say it antigonizes him too. First thing when he came over, he then focussed on how I hung up on him, not on anything else. He says "if you want to talk hanging up just doesn't cut it"
so he was also surprised I was leaving . "oh, you're leaving?" and I told him what S needed in terms of medicine (he's got a cold) and that violates the NC rule, but again, worried about how all this is affecting S.
Then slipped out, no good bye. When asked, I said I didn't know if I'd return tonight. Now crying, going to read and nap.
