oh i dont even want to answer your question...he works with her, well, she works for him.

i never would have gotten involved with him had i known the story. he admitted it all to me a few months in and i can honestly say i trusted he had not been with her.

he owns the business and she works with him because he bought her business out, i believe while the affair was going on. he wants to fire her but cant because she could sue. i know they still speak but he told me it was over and he wouldnt go back with her.

look, its either i trust him on it or i dont and i chose to trust.

i am 12 years younger than him and she is 2 years older than him. i dont really see her as my competition if u know what i mean.

my issue is more that right now we are kinda on a break since he has so many crazy issues on his plate and cant give me the full attention relationship we were in, its now i wonder if he is seeing her, but i guess if he is seeing her now, its not really my concern, so long as it wasnt when we were seriously involved.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09