If I had them on today, I would have taken a picture of them with their baskets and recorded them saying, "Happy easter mommy. We love you." and sent the pic and audio to her phone.
She did none of the sort. I had to txt her later on in the day and ask her to have the kids call me so I could wish them both a happy Easter.
I drafted a txt telling her I don't think I should have had to txt her and she should have done what I would have done. I didn't send it (I've learned something along the way..lol). Eventually I decided not to send it because I realized it was just an attempt for me to take a jab at her and really had nothing to do with the kids.
Do I think it would have been common courtesy for her to have done that? Yes. But who am I to expect people to act like me? There's no rule that says that's how it is in the universe. I could have easily texted her this morning and asked for a picture if it really was about the kids.
I do check myself often and try to filter out my own BS when I see it.
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