Mila - Thanks for your encouragement. I do need to regroup a bit and get it together. I did survive so far with the MLC, I guess I can keep going.:) I do feel lucky. Even if our M doesn't work out, he is at a pretty good place again with the kids and we are on good terms (just not married terms!), so I really can't complain.
Ottocat - Thank you so much for stopping by my thread! Your registered date shows you have been around a long time - do you have a current thread? Your post brought tears to my eyes. Thanks for that reminder. You are right- God can heal and make my H whole again. I need to just keep H in HIS hands and not worry about it so much.
I have my own moments of "clarity" when I can see that this MLC HAD to happen. I have known my H his whole adult life and he has been struggling with these issues on and off the whole time. Hopefully this will be the catalyst for him to actually face and deal with them and move on to a better place for him. I do pray that happens. I can see how our M could be so much better in the future for having gone through this.
