www.midlifecrisisadvocate.com
is a fantastic website all about midlife crisis.You will see various ref to it on this site.Roller coaster rider is on the forum and she does a lot of great work in hosting this site.You will find the experience most people go through is broadly similiar.My husband is definitely going through a MLC and I believe it is very real.
Good luck hope it helps


ME 44
H 45
D 14
D 20
M 22 YEARS
TOGETHER 28YEARS
Bomb Drop 14th July 09
Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09)
MLC 3years

Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith