The dreaded LIMBO

[4luv]

i completely agree allen. things are starting to be very clear. I got a text from husband that simply said "I am sorry 4 what happened. I am trying to clean out my closet."

My MIL stopped by before church and said that she talked to my husband yesterday and he told her about the phone call. She said that husband told her "OW called 4luv." He claims that he told OW that he couldn't do "this" anymore with her and that he is stressed out and just wants to be done with everything. Apparently OW went off and then called me. Husband also told his mom that he wasn't even in OW's state and that he was in our state at work. He told MIL, "4luv knew I was at work. I was talking to her that day at work."

While it is true that I was talking to him earlier that day while he was at work (his bosses were in the background and then I was hold on speaker phone while they were doing a brief meeting check ) it was not at all impossible for him to make the 7 to 8 hour drive to see OW that night. Crazier things have happened!! She was saying that he was saying how him and I were just getting to a point where he felt that we were having honest conversations (this is weird as I have been really reserved when talking to him). So I told MIL, it doesn't matter, the fact is that I don't know whether or not to believe him because I don't trust him. I said that once someone has lied so much you can't trust a thing they say.

In all honesty I think that my husband was in OW's state. Just doesn't add up why he would not have called after he found out that OW contacted me.

and NO, I AM NOT RESPONDING TO HIS TEXTS :-) Just wanted to make that clear :-) NO ACTION = NO RESPONSE FROM ME