So sorry this is a rough time for you.

Make her serve you! Do not accept it any other way. It's a stall tactic for you. Time doesn't start till YOU are served. Or tell her you are interviewing attorney's right now and when you find one you like, you will have your L pick up the papers. Or, she can hire a courier which costs $$. You don't have the time to pick up the papers. I'll think of more...


Me: WAW/MLC 41
H: 42
M: 16 yr T: 20
Me: EA/PA started Sept 2008
D: Anytime, just need to sign papers
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