Very true guys. Another slap in the face W takes D on Easter to MIL and never asked me what if anything I planned. They just up and leave. I was fuming but just waved good-bye. So much for me trying to preserve Easter and not bringing up affair last night.

I'm dealing this evening with this chit. Letting her know that I'm aware of everything and won't live like this anymore. I've just worked out all our bills per month and have split the costs out between W and I. I've been subsidizing her side to the tune of over $500 a month. That's the first thing. Joint accounts and joint credit all end on Monday (unless some miracle happens tonight).

I'm going into protection phase. I'll suggest she leave but I can't make her. We'll see how that goes.

Oh yea and I'm sleeping in my own bed tonight


M 40
W 39
D 4
M 5 years
Bomb dropped 08/09
In house separation