My w seems to not follow any of the normal behaviour when going dark on her. I go dark, she gives up. A few weeks ago she initiated a conversation with me at one of our bi-weekly divorce support groups for our daughter. She had heard on NPR about a project in the city that I had helped with. I sat and told her all about it and all of the other projects that I had been doing while she sat smiling and listening. That is the only time that she has initiated since febuary?
At the end of the class she told me she was tired and then turned to me and asked me if her eyes were red. I said, "yes, maybe you should use visine." she said that she has one for her purse and one for home. lol. Is she happy at all?
I told her that she does'nt get enough sleep and she said, " I know. I drink too much caffeine too." I think I should ask her about the divorce because I dont want to get kicked in the stomach the day that it does go through and I was not ready for it. I want to be on the ball with it so that I can feel in control of it I guess. Now, how to word it?
Last edited by v1olin; 04/04/1006:00 PM.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
