Very good advice everyone. Well here is what I did this morning. I sent a e-card to my daughters wishing them a happy easter. I sent x-wife a text wishing her a happy easter. Then I sent a text to x-wife saying that in regards to her and OM, that I am very happy for her and wish her only the best....and that's how I am going to leave it.
I can frankly agree with lin that I should not wait, but then again, it is best to be her friend, and be the best dad I can be. I am going to continue DBing until I can really say that I gave it my all, even after post divorce and it being 2yrs.