Well, here is the deal... back in January I started a VERY strict no contact with my stbxw. It bordered on hateful at times on my part. I pretty much acted like she was a ghost even though she was in the same room.
At that time in Janauary I asked my lawyer when the divorce would be final and she said about 4 to 5 weeks. It is now April and it is still not final. W will owe me half of her 401k and half of her pension- that is all that is left to be settled.
The question is this, do I ask her to speed the divorce to finality or do I wait? I think she has finacial reasons(obviously) for it to not be final but maybe she is afraid for it to be over? Maybe some second thoughts?
I am in a very good state of mind now but I would still love for my family to beat this divorce. I am not afraid any longer of losing my W. I know that for sure. But maybe it is time for me to give it one more DB try?
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
