OK, I m going to try to do all this. It's hard to wrap my head around. All I keep thinking is how happy he said he is without me, imagining him with OW and how he's moved on ....
and so angry that he didn't giv our marriage more of a chance, more vulnerability, more openess....
and of course this leads me to want to do the opposite of go dark = I want to convnice, plead, etc.
I know better. but the urge is strong today. the pain of losing not only my husband but my son half the time is almost too great.
going dark is the scariest and hardest thing. but i'll try and hope you are all correct...
