My H is acting very selfish right now and has been for several years. What he wants always can before what was best for our family. He may have had good intentions. He is acting like he is back in high school or college, instead of a grown man with a wife and kids.
Currently, he gone out an purchased a kayak and new clothes, and I'm sure more stuff. All to impress this OW. He worries more about OW feeling than he does about his own kids. When this all came out, he was suppose to go over to tell her that he wanted to work on his family. But when he got there she started crying and he felt bad for her, so he didn't. Rather he came home to me and told me that he wanted to be single. It didn't matter that I had told him that I still loved him and that I was crying, apparently it was too late for me.
And everytime he sees our kids, he feels he needs to buy them things. I have asked him not to do this, because it is sending the wrong message. I told him they would rather spend time with you.
Well the boys and I are headed out to go to the zoo, then maybe come back and spend time with the rest of the family.
XH 30 W 29 M 5/Together 9 2 boys ages 3 and 1 Bomb of OW 10/2009 Divorce final 7/2010 Now in limbo
