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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love? ddstartingover #1974405 04/04/10 04:07 PM
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Mila Member M Joined: Feb 2010 Posts: 1,605 West Coast	Diana, i'm sorry, tough weekend, though situation.... I think you handled H keeping the kids for Easter very well, I know you miss them...but you did the right thing IMO. Quote: I have many questions about finances. I have no idea how I will end up. How long can I stay in my home?? The work involved with upkeep and maintenance is overwhelming. This was supposed to be OUR home. It was a dream when we moved in. I also have so many questions about the future and so few answers. When I start thinking of "what will be" I get overwhelmed. I play-out all kinds of unpleasant scenarios in my mind. That's not good...I keep telling myself "one day at the time", things will work them selves out, they always do. I'll be OK no matter what. I'm strong I can do this...kind of self pep-talk. I try to switch my thought on to something positive. I'm having a though weekend as well...it's the Holidays, so many warm memories...so lonely without H. Just me and D... Sorry, don't want to depress you more. You are doing great taking care of the things your H probably did before...lawn, yard...fixing mower...you are definitely not helpless. Keep you chin up. It will all work out in the end...there is happiness waiting for us in the future...with or without them M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO

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How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/05/10 04:51 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/05/10 06:28 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	TomLost Love	03/05/10 06:48 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/05/10 07:20 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	HeartsBlessing	03/05/10 07:21 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	TomLost Love	03/05/10 07:45 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	C-Bart	03/05/10 08:09 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	courageous wife	03/05/10 08:19 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Golfgirl1	03/05/10 08:28 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/08/10 05:42 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/08/10 09:08 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Cadet	03/08/10 09:15 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	iluvme55	03/08/10 09:19 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Cadet	03/08/10 09:24 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/08/10 09:49 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/08/10 09:50 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/08/10 10:46 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 01:49 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/10/10 01:38 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 03:26 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	brandnewday	03/10/10 03:32 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 04:43 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	SoCo	03/10/10 05:13 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/10/10 05:22 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 05:25 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/10/10 05:38 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 06:07 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 07:40 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	C-Bart	03/10/10 08:48 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 08:53 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/10/10 09:01 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 09:08 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	figgeroni	03/10/10 09:14 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/10/10 09:18 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 09:46 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	mindfull	03/10/10 09:51 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/10/10 09:59 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/10/10 10:02 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 10:07 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	C-Bart	03/10/10 10:10 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 10:14 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/10/10 10:16 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 10:24 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/10/10 10:29 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/10/10 10:13 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/10/10 10:21 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	C-Bart	03/10/10 10:09 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	C-Bart	03/10/10 09:05 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/11/10 11:35 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/11/10 11:46 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/11/10 12:06 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/11/10 02:00 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/11/10 02:18 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	C-Bart	03/11/10 02:34 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/11/10 02:54 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/12/10 12:58 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/12/10 05:42 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/13/10 02:10 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Upside	03/13/10 03:04 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/13/10 03:57 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Upside	03/13/10 04:19 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 10:45 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/15/10 02:57 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 03:16 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 03:49 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Cadet	03/15/10 03:55 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 03:59 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/15/10 04:11 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 04:20 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/15/10 04:23 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 05:08 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/15/10 05:31 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 06:18 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/15/10 07:19 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 07:25 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/15/10 07:37 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 09:34 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/15/10 09:42 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/15/10 11:19 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/16/10 10:42 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/16/10 02:15 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/16/10 02:30 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/16/10 02:45 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/16/10 04:38 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/16/10 05:12 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/18/10 02:41 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/21/10 01:34 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	job	03/21/10 01:40 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/21/10 01:55 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	job	03/21/10 02:06 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/21/10 02:06 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	TrentC	03/21/10 04:55 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	are you kidding	03/21/10 04:58 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	are you kidding	03/21/10 05:02 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/21/10 05:34 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	are you kidding	03/21/10 05:48 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	are you kidding	03/21/10 05:52 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	are you kidding	03/21/10 05:56 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/21/10 05:56 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	are you kidding	03/21/10 06:02 PM
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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/21/10 06:37 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/21/10 10:21 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Mila	03/21/10 10:40 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	TrentC	03/22/10 05:17 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/22/10 10:46 AM
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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/22/10 11:07 AM
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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/22/10 07:52 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/22/10 07:59 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/22/10 08:03 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Drew	03/22/10 08:05 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Mach1	03/22/10 08:09 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/22/10 08:39 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/22/10 08:45 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Mach1	03/22/10 08:49 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/22/10 09:09 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Upside	03/22/10 11:02 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	03/23/10 02:15 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/26/10 01:45 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	mindfull	03/26/10 01:47 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/26/10 02:25 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/26/10 03:41 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Mach1	03/26/10 03:47 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	03/26/10 05:26 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Cadet	04/01/10 07:39 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	C-Bart	04/01/10 08:17 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Virtually_Handsome	04/01/10 11:55 PM
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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/02/10 02:15 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/02/10 02:28 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Mach1	04/02/10 03:07 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Upside	04/02/10 03:51 PM
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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	04/04/10 08:00 PM
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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/05/10 10:24 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/05/10 10:57 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	Jack_Three_Beans	04/05/10 11:04 PM
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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	04/06/10 07:56 PM
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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/08/10 09:35 PM
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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/11/10 02:15 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	C-Bart	04/12/10 04:01 AM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/12/10 02:07 PM
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Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	ddstartingover	04/13/10 04:05 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	SoCo	04/13/10 04:39 PM
Re: How do you forget....how do you turn off the love?	kat727	04/20/10 01:53 PM
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