Jtish - Sorry that you find yourself here - hugs to you. THere are many of us in similar situations, the Old Guard will be along to give you the links for the information on MLC.
My H too has an OW, in his case she is an old girlfriend that he knew when he was 16. So when he is with her, he gets to imagine he is 16 again. He is extremely selfish too, like a teenager would be. They all seem to do this, its called 'replay' behavior where they try to go back in time. Everything they do is based in fantasy. Right now you can't compete with that and it sucks that you have to be the adult. This is a long tortuous process for everyone involved.
Hang in there, I'm sure more folks will post soon. I hope you can enjoy your easter, celebrate for you.
Me - 38 Husband - 40 MLC! Together 12 years Married 11 years Still the love of my life Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair
