My parents had to head back home on saturday but it was nice visiting with them. They are the only ones who know that H is pushing D, I guess perhaps its a good thing that H hasn't told anyone else.
I was surprised that my parents were supportive, and yet didn't really tell me what to do. I guess I expected them to push D as well, thinking that they would want to end my pain. They did ask about how long I thought I would wait for my H, realizing that MLC can take years to resolve. I told them I couldn't give them a timeline, when I felt I could move on I would. (they were thinking dating again, etc)
So, I planned Easter dinner for me, I'm making a lamb roast and if H shows up he can eat, if not I guess it's just me. His parents invited us for dinner, but he lied to them saying we were spending the day with my parents. Guess I'm going to try to enjoy some of the nice summer weather.
Me - 38 Husband - 40 MLC! Together 12 years Married 11 years Still the love of my life Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair