Bad attitude buddy. You have to be the man. Your going to get it sometimes even if she's not necessarily in the mood. If the shoe was on the other foot it would be the same way if you where the gatekeeper to her having sex.
An even worse, if not the worst, attitude.
First, maybe in your state you can't be charged with rape and labelled and be required to be registered as a sex offender because you are married (at least the first time). But if your wife decides (out of anger) to dial 911 and the police show up, you are going to jail, regardless of whether your wife wants to press charges or not (or she is for filing a false police report via 911). Or, as bad as the first, she tells someone else and they report you.
Second, there are obvious physiological differences. If you are not aroused (and that becomes obvious), no matter what, she can try to stuff a limp penis inside her, but there is not a lot of there, there.
Third, (again due to physiological differences) she is able to fake sexual interest and satisfaction convincingly.
It is one thing to be persistent to see if you can coax her into sex. It is another thing, if after some persistence, she clearly says and means no.
The Captain
Last sex: 04/06/1997 Last attempt: 11/11/1997 W Issues "No Means No" Declaration: 11/11/1997 W chooses to terminate sex 05/1998 I gained 60, then lost 85 pounds. Start running again (marathons)