Hey Ant,

Your reply was my immediate thought as well, but why do I already feel guilty about replying like that?

I believe there is some passive aggressiveness in her reply, but am I just way off and too close to the situation?

It seems another loose-loose for me. if I say yes, she is still treating me as her provider and doormat, in my opinion, if I say no, she gets to build up more resentment and anger about me being 'inflexible' and not doing what is 'best for our daughter' etc.

Still pondering, but also need to just have fun today with d9 while I have her..


M: 41
STBXW: 41
D: 9
Bomb: 4/26/09

On board the D train now..

"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."