Exh said he wanted to talk to me yesterday. I thought for sure we would have the taking baby unsupervised discussion. He asked me if I have noticed the changes in him. I honestly said Yes, the last few weeks have been different. Can't lie. He went on with the 'i am changing my life speech. I want a good relationship with my 3 daughters and see what happens with you SO2". I said we know what happens with us....you like this for awhile and you get bored, lonely, or horney and you go looking for that greener grass. He said he knows it will take awhile for me to trust him, but he is going to prove I am wrong. I didn't even bring up the sobriety issue as I know the stuff he said is just for now.
He was here yesterday doing some stuff for me again and then said he had to go to his brothers for a bit but begged me to wait for him to color eggs with baby. He also thought we could have dinner and take baby in hottub after. He had this whole evening planned out. What he didn't know is I can bet that he would cancel...Saturday afternoon he is going to be fighting urges to drink.
Sure enough about 4 he sent a text "you color eggs, going home with a migraine". I just said ok. Baby, D18 and I colored eggs, had dinner and went in hottub. We had fun doing the eggs, but with a 2 year old it sure makes a mess. She insisted on not using the dipper but using her hands to grab the eggs!
My S16 went fishing all day yesterday and exh had left him a message to bring some fish by when he got home. At 8:30 my S16 called me and said that he called exh back and his D13 answered his phone. When she gave the phone to exh he was all slurry and could hardly talk. My S16 just said he will talk to him tomorrow.
Makes me sad. I just wish exh would realize what is happening and its getting worse and he needs to do something or he will most likely die this way.
Oh, my exsil talked to her son who was at the bbq at exh's brothers. He said exh was drinking...then he drove home 45 minutes that way. I can't believe after the last DUI and just geting his license back he takes that risk again. I can bet I know what happened at the bbq...its the brother that is sober and on fire for being sober. Exh had a few beers, knows that he couldnt' have anymore, needed more, and came up with headache excuse to leave.
Anyway, today is Easter. Going to church, my moms, nap, back to my moms. Hunting lots of eggs too!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
