jtish - the board is a little slow due to the holiday weekend. Hang in there advice will be forth coming. There are resources located at the top of the page. I'm not computer savvy enough to link them in for you. Sorry you find yourself here but there are great people who know what you're going through to help you along.
Don't know if your H is in MLC or not but MLC = Selfishness. There will be more experienced DBers along to comment about your sitch and how to proceed.
