I wouldn't attach too much to your conversations and experience together at this point. If you end up piecing the M back they caution against trying to interact too early in the process. It is a slow process of coming together.
I think from your somewhat mixed experience last night caution may be the better course.
I think what DLS was referring to is "lifeboating" maintaining relationships that are not necessarily pro your M, just in case the ship goes down.
Problem with that is you are either on the ship and trying to bail water and make repairs or you are in the life boat but you can't do both.
I am sure you have the Italian Easter feast today with the fam? I am roasting a leg of lamb for our family. Hope you enjoy the day!
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
