Any words of wisdom? God does much of his work through people...I'm listening to you...
That is why what we say is so serious. I feel very unwise in most things, but I do believe whenever a person is trying to do what is right then God will work things out for their good. That may mean that "this" R will not heal but that there is a better one down the road. Yes, God wants our M to last but He is not going to force your W to do something against her free will. So, it's tough, very tough. Just know that He is in your corner.
She sounds very looney right now....talking about having another baby, etc., to the girls. That is probably her way of trying to get them to accept her "other" life she is fantasizing about.
It is hard for you to make even small decisions at this time b/c of the condition of your M, family, health....everything. Don't be too hard on yourself. Be a friend to "you" b/c if you get too down on yourself that will not help the girls or stitch.
Hope Easter will be a good day for your family.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!