I was wondering what you thought of the positives in my sitch lately. Are these signs of her coming out of her fog? The time she introduced me as her 'husband' to her friend last week was the first time she's called me that in two years.
It sure does look promising! I believe as long as she had to work everyday with OM that she couldn't get out of that darn fog, but look at how quickly she started making little positive steps as soon as he left. I thought she might get into a funk afterwards, you know...the grieving stuff, but it looks like she is doing a lot better.
I know it must be hard not to push her to make her go faster, but just try to maintain your patience b/c you are seeing her testing the waters, right?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
