Need a Plan for My Marriage

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Yesterday was crazy after my wife came home from the Space Science Day 2010. She told me that she set up a play date with a classmate of my daughters without telling me when I had planned to do Easter egg coloring with the kids. She did not tell me about the Space Sciend Day 2010 either, just said she was taking them.

They did go from about 1:15 pm to about 4:00 pm. We walked far apart from each other on the way there. When we came home I told that we need to take the Easter presents back because we did not have enough money in our account for them. She needed to talk to me so we determine how much we had to spend to buy some nice Easter presents. We are very limited on money, and I want food and gas until we are better financially next pay day. I had some ideas that I wanted to talk to her about for the kids. She does not talk to me; she does what she wants. I wanted to use the credit card for some gifts because we need the cash. I went to take them back, and she gave me the receipts for them. On the way out she said she only wanted the basketball and a shirt for our daughter. I told her to come with me, and we will decide what to buy together. She said she wants nothing to do with me. She is through with me, she said. I said you do what you have to. We argued a little. She went to run to the car, and so did I. When I was leaving the parking garage, she stood in front of me. I started to go slowly, and she would not let go of the door handle. So I slowly started to drive because I did not want to hurt her. I just wanted to go. I stopped in the middle of the street and a red truck pulled next to us. He said if I hurt her he would call the police. I told him it was my car too, and she needed to let go, so I could leave. I told her I would call 911 if she did not. I did not want to be put in jail for this. I believe that I was correct. I did not want this to get anymore out of hand. I did call 911, and she left and went home. I called several times, but she did not answer. I told her lets work this out reasonably. I went and exchanged the gifts and put them on the credit card and kept them even though we are tight for every penny. I brought them home and she was a asleep and told her I have them. The day was better after that but not much.

She says that the money is hers not mine. I told it is our money. We are married. She went on and on about this.

What a rollercoaster day for me.