I like that quote- I'll be sure to send it to STBX after the D...lol.
I agree, too many people are going through this...its very sad- what I find even worse is the advice our loved ones give and how they call me "delusional" or a glutton for punishment.
Dont listen to anyone not supportive of your POV...they can disagree but they need to respect it as well.
If you can detach enough and do the act as if- as far as leaving, it may be a shot...
I always hear the WAH is an easier fix than the WAW...
Grass is Never Greener, but you can rarely have WAS understand that- their "feelings" just aren't there anymore.
My frined told me Friday- "action precedes motivation" great quote!
No WAS wants to hear that shirt though.
My NC is for me, and it also serves to allow myself to self-heal to the point where if WAW wants back the answer may be "no"
My NC is me becoming the WAW- self preservation, detoxing, and getting used to life w/o W- the diff is, I understand an unbiased view o the M history (good and bad now), I'm aware thatMC would help, I am in IC once a week, twice if I'm having a hard time, and I've read most of the books suggested here...
W will have to catch up quite a bit if this is what she wants...I'm not there anymore though...
I think you can do a lot to improve your sitch...sometimes you have to let go to really be able to have anything
