Thanks Piano- Here's my sitch: 1 of 4 things are going to happen (no time limit yet) 1- W files 2- I heal and become ready, I file 3-I heal, meet someone, I file 4- W asks/wants to come back
number 4 is least probable- truthfully, number 3 is more likely to occur, but not trying to make it happen. number 2 may be a while- we'll see how I feel after 45 days NC who knows about number 1...
I GALd like a king and actually really enjoyed my company- so maybe I'm lying about number 3...lol.
still being respectful to my non-existant M; but def se how easy it is to get over someone by having another person in the sitch...she knows my sitch so no boundary issues...just very nice not talking about my sitch and getting to know someone better.
I do not recommend it, but I have read many other people suggest "non-involved dating" to be good for GAL, confidence, and seeing reality.
