Thanks everyone for your advise. Here is my current sitch. Texted my kids mom about OM. She confirmed in text that yes it is her boyfriend. Get this, it is also her boss. Reason she is attracted to him, is because he looks like her father. I just don't get her.
In the last text I sent her, I indicated that she not force our girls to like him. She didn't give them a choice about divorce, her dating other men, and about boyfriend. Why ask them now? - Reason is oldest says that mom asked them if they like OM.
Get this, OM reads her text messages that I send her. If I were to do that, I would be labeled as controlling - but for OM, it is okay. I don't get her.
After divorce, she went to get tattoo, then belly pierced. Don't know wether she had MLC or just had bad influence from family and friends.
I was upset to hear her confirm the boyfriend and girlfriend thing. But in a way, I expected it was going to happen. Part of me says be patient, the other says, Stop kicking yourself in the head and just move on.
I had a plan, but now, I don't know what to do. Any advise?
