That's not good. It is MUCH harder to do this with someone with an addiction. It will still work for you and your sanity, but...that is not a good thing to hear. I'm so sorry.
I was wondering how you could have so many pages and not have much result. Their addiction makes it nearly impossible to DB.
Flowmom is right--you need to go dark. You need to detox from this guy--he is not going to be able to be what you want until he is not using.
And congrats on your positives!!! Got any good recipes to share?