Thank you Flowmom. I have read DR and familiarized myself with the 180's. What makes my sitch a little unique (or I haven't noticed them) is that my wife did file for divorce and we are in that process.
Since the filing she has expressed at least a little uncertainty in actually wanting the divorce.
The thing is, I can't find much advice on how to handle it when the spouse who files isn't sure it's what they want to do after all. I would love it if it were withdrawn, but I don't want to apply pressure.
How much relationship talk is allowed once divorce is filed?
