Still thinking... Can she attend a session with your IC? Is there a support group for her? Buy some books on addiction and marraige recovery and place them in spots that she will see them. And of course read them. I still am wondering if you can get someone of religious authority to assist here. I mean this is a crisis for you right now. Does she have a trusted friend you can go and speak to? Maybe this friend can talk to her?
Maybe no Internet access at all. Turn it off at home?
Millions of apologies always help. Heartfelt sincerity, talk about how you really fell. Being very attentive...
I don't know, maybe others will have better insight.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)