(((((GF))))) So, somehow, it would be good to figure out how to calm yourself, maybe even before you have to talk to him. Or, at worst, come up with a way to shut him down when he goes off the acceptable path. Maybe even just walk away? I don't know. I really see the problem. You have to talk to him, and he goes off the rails. And it gets to you. We will think about this some more!
