Hi, I`m Celestial, a poster from 5 years ago. My sitch, Me 53, H(#2)47. Our problem started 6 yrs. ago when H realized he no longer wanted to be with me when I found out I was going to be a grandmother. Not very good for his imagine. Dropped the bomb 5 years ago. Have been living together all this time. H put on a great act for everyone, but I knew what he was up to all along.
Ive learned so much about myself during his MLC. H is still at replay stage and never went past it. This past winter was the breaking point for us, 5 years of tales and woes, and I decided I love him, but learned to love myself more, so his drama must stop for me.
I filed for D last month, he was begging for me to do so, after our sitch finally came to a head, I realised it`s time to accept my sitch, and move on.
H is in for a shock, because I`m unemployed at the moment, not good for him, lets say he`ll be up against some unexpected financial stuff, I`ve also been available to him throught his crisis, saving him when I shouldn`t have, I won`t be around for him to rely on. As much as he thinks I`m the reason for ALL his problems, I know he loves me, one day he will see it as well.
I would like to remain friends, but he`s not into that. He wants me out of his life, once and for all, and for good. So, he`s getting his wish, and that`s when his crisis will be full blown, when he`ll be on his own.
