TF - that is an interesting dilemma you've pointed out. You and H being at different maturity levels. Only time will tell if he will catch up with you. Hopefully there is enough of the "old him" for you to love while you patiently guide him all the way out of the tunnel so he can complete his journey.
You will need to believe in him and in yourself, your work is just beginning. I know that it's scarry and you don't want to get hurt again. But as you said you have matured a great deal and learned a lot about MLC. You can do it
Many of us would like to be in your shoes. All the best, keep us posted
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
