Sorry you find yourself in this sitch. You have found a great place for support.
Sandi is very wise and has given you stellar advise. I strongly suggest that you read her post again. Read it with an open mind. The things that work are counter-intuitive. I recommend following every word of advise sandi gave you. It is based on what we have seen work with others.......
I wish you well during these hard times.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
