Sorry, but it is time for luvless to lead and stop chasing. I hate that her H made the same choice as my W, but pursuit, in whatever form, is PURSUIT. And it will not work.
Luvless, time for looking out for YOU. He's either coming back (you decide if you want him anymore) or he isn't (and its HIS loss). Grieve, then focus on you and get to work.
