Do you think it is too late to ask him to meet your demands? Maybe with an IC to deal witht he repeated affairs? Maybe admission to the kids and an end to any contact with other women? Maybe you all could move to his job, or he must quit his job to prove committment.
If it is too late - it is his fault for not being honest I guess. I wonder is all...
If this brings up any sad feelings, I'm sorry. It seems like now is a good time as he hasn't moved out yet for an agreement.
Good luck either way. It seems like the last few weeks have been real hard.
